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Thinking of moving closer to family? Read this first

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Thinking of moving closer to family?  One of the most popular reasons for relocating these days is to be closer to family.  Now with even more opportunity for working remotely, what used to tie people down to one location, isn't as much of an issue anymore.

The mere idea of free babysitting, being able to borrow power tools or camping supplies or having a place to go for a home-cooked meal can be enough to consider making the move. Before you become too excited, remember to consider the full range of consequences, keeping in mind that there are many factors involved in the decision, including money matters.  

No matter your motivation, where you live will have a big impact on your relationships and your quality of life. Read over this checklist before you decide to change your address.

Steps to Take Before You Move

  1. Talk it over. Discuss your plans thoroughly. If you have aging parents, make sure they want your help. If you recently graduated college or lost a job, clarify expectations about what you'll be doing with your future.
  2. Review old patterns. Longstanding conflicts and communication issues may reemerge when you're spending more time together. Take responsibility for your part in the dynamics and be open to compromises.
  3. Consider other family members. How do your spouse and children feel about moving? Look for ways to minimize the impact on their careers and education.
  4. Calculate your budget. The biggest shifts are occurring in the most expensive cities, like New York, Austin and San Francisco. You may be able to reduce your cost of living, but your income may drop too.
  5. Be proactive. What if your mother has a stroke, or your relatives move away soon after you arrive? If you're hoping to settle down for a while, think about changes that could affect your situation.
  6. Minimize clutter. Packing light will make any move more pleasant. That's especially true if you'll be moving into a family home where you'll share limited space.
  7. Try it out. If possible, test the waters before you quit your job. Use your vacation days to see what it would be like to live closer to family members.

Steps to Take During and After Your Move

If you decide that moving is in your best interest, it can still be a stressful event.  There are some things you can do however to make the transition easier.

Try these ideas for enjoying more harmony while you and your extended family share closer quarters:

  1. Set boundaries. Respectful communications and clear expectations will enhance your relationships. Let others know how you wish to be treated.
  2. Check community resources. See what's available in your new neighborhood. There may be senior centers for your parents and support groups for you.
  3. Take time off. If you are moving to help care for an aging or disabled relative, remember respite services are important for any caregiver. Decide how much time you're able to spend with aging or disabled relatives. Ask other family members to fill in when you need a break or arrange for professional services.
  4. Stay in touch. Some relationships will probably fade when you move away. However, sustaining close friendships can help you build support and feel less lonely in a new place. Use video calls and weekend visits to keep each other updated.
  5. Pack a box. On moving day, remember to bring an overnight bag and at least one box with high-priority items. Being organized will help you to function and feel more at home.
  6. Be positive. There are pros and cons in any living situation. Focus on what you love about your family and the benefits of your new home.

Moving closer to your family may create stronger bonds and relieve financial pressures. Weigh your decision carefully so you can find an arrangement that works well for you and your loved ones.


And of course, if you decide to move and need help selling your home in San Tan Valley, reach out to one of our local San Tan Valley real estate agents for help.

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